
SOWETO, outside of Johannesburg Host: A grandma named Makeke and her 2-year-old grand-nephew
Connection: A locally run tour group arranges stays with her in an effort to get people into the township. I stayed with her my very last night in South Africa, my one night between Mozambique and going home. (The second picture is not Makeke's home, but it is a home in the neighborhood.)
Best moment: After dinner, Makeke and I sat under a blanket together and watched South African soap operas. The actors switched seamlessly between English and various African languages.
Food: Fried chicken, french fries and a special veggie sauce for dinner. Fried eggs, avocado and toast for breakfast.
Interesting fact: Makeke was born and raised in the culturally and racially diverse town of Sophiatown until its destruction by the Apartheid government. Her family was forcefully removed into the all black township of Soweto in 1955.
What I learned: Soweto has a population of approximately 1.5 million. It was at the heart of the anti-Apartheid movement. It was also where one of my favorite movies, Tsotsi, was filmed, and I got to walk around the "set."
LANGA, outside of Cape TownHost: Ma Neo (far right in picture)
Connection: The local tour company that took me through the township dropped me off at her house. It is where I spent my first night after Seth left.
Best moment: Her 19-year-old grandson took me out into the neighborhood after dark to go mix some tunes with his DJ friend. When we got there, the DJ and a handful of other guys were cramped up in a smoke-filled room watching the animated movie Ice Age, so we left.
Food: I was pleasantly surprised when Ma Neo (far right) and her daughter (middle) sat and ate dinner with me. We had chicken and pap, a mashed potato-like substance made from maize. They also ate breakfast with me.
Interesting fact: Ma Neo is a retired nurse, and now she takes care of people in her community with HIV/AIDS, like the woman in the far left of this picture who comes over for food every day
What I learned: People are welcoming and grateful to white people who want to see and understand township life, but they wish that whites from their own country - not just foreign tourists - would come too.

DURBANHost: 25-year-old Nicole and her mom, dad and brother, Rowan
Connection: One of my best friends met one of Nicole's best friends in the Netherlands, and they put us in contact. Seth and I stayed with them for three nights, and Nicole took us all over the town.
Best moment: Seth, Nicole, Rowan and I spent an entire Sunday night playing an intense game of Risk. I was the first out; I blame my disdain for colonialism.
Food: Nicole took us to eat "bunny chow," a local Indian specialty that is a loaf of bread full of curry. Her mom made us many other delicious meals with tender South African meat.
Interesting fact: The D'Almaines have been "burgled" (burglarized) four times, twice while they were in the house. They have a fence and three dogs.
What I learned: Things are difficult for White South Africans now. They feel less safe, it is harder to get jobs because of affirmative action, they feel that the police are corrupt and that health care is worse. They have very little hope in government. But they flew their flag for the World Cup.























